C'est la vie. His loss. But, after three years of lacking a good male friend, I have found a guy who's just way too much fun to be legal. We hit it off almost immediately, we agree on so much, I can talk to him about anything, including the fact that I have a crush on him and I need to put some space between us so I can get my sanity and perspective back. True story. He was cool with that, and said, "I understand. Let me know when you're ready to talk again. Guess that means the phone calls are out." If it wasn't for one 'little' thing that freaks me out, I'd say he's the closest thing to perfection this side of heaven. He's told me that he finds me attractive, interesting, intelligent, and he was seriously considering dating me when I said I had a crush, but he knew it wouldn't work, so he chose not to 'go there'. For which I am undyingly thankful, because I think if we dated, it would end badly, and the friendship is too good to ruin for no good reason. But who knows the future? If something happens, it happens. But, for now, we're friends. And I have way too much going on to give the time and energy to a relationship, so friendships are Just Fine until further notice.

Once again, I hold strong to my theory that "ALL men are idiots. They are born that way and just can't help themselves!"