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  Family or Soulmate?
 Posted: 10/27/03 04:42
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So that latest commercials have brought on this question--

If it were you and you were forced to pick only one who would you choose? Your Family or Your Soulmate?


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  Family or Soulmate?
 Posted: 10/27/03 16:02
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Family. I chose this because I am very close to my family and they have never given me any reason to doubt their judgement. Of course, my parents have never been the kind to tell me who I can and cannot date, but if they did, then I would have to believe that they had good reason for doing so.


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  Family or Soulmate?
 Posted: 10/28/03 11:01
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I would choose my soulmate. I mean, I'd almost always listen to my family if they didn't like the guy I was dating, but if I knew he was my soulmate then I would choose him and just hope my family could eventually accept it. :)


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  Family or Soulmate?
 Posted: 10/29/03 11:58
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I chose other..which ever of the two asked me to choose would be the one who would lose me. You can't ask me to chose. This happened to me before. My parents made me pick between them and a boyfriend, I was an adult though...Because they made me chose I chose my boyfriend at the time. We later broke up and my parents understood but I can't believe that they would make me choose with no good reason. They had no reason to dislike him other then a "feeling"


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  Family or Soulmate?
 Posted: 10/29/03 13:13
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Kristin, you make an excellent point. Because if your family or boyfriend really loved you, they wouldn't force you to make such a difficult decision. I hope to never be put in that situation.


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  Family or Soulmate?
 Posted: 10/29/03 19:30
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I chose the third one I think it was. I would continue to see him behind their back. Dishonest sure, but I for one, HATE being told who I could/couldnot see and two, would try to "appease" my parents by just keeping them in the dark.

OH and maybe I should point out that it never works. :(


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  Family or Soulmate?
 Posted: 10/30/03 11:32
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Hi..A couple more thoughts...

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Kristin, you make an excellent point. Because if your family or boyfriend really loved you, they wouldn't force you to make such a difficult decision. I hope to never be put in that situation.


That Is what I thought...It wasn't fair for my Mother particularly to ask me to choose...Especially with the past that me and my Mother have. My parents are divorced and we have been thought some really difficult times but I always stood by her, even when she moved us in with a man that I hardly knew.

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OH and maybe I should point out that it never works.


As for Bunny's Quote..Sad but True...:lol But like I have said before..I reside in Denial Land...:hide


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